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Sexual Health & Related Resources


Sexual Health

Entails a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence


Reproductive Health

 

It is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity, in all matters relating to the reproductive system and to its functions and processes 

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At Amirrah, we believe that while we can talk about Sexual and Reproductive Health (SRH) in tandem with one another, by no means should we be using these terms interchangeably. 

In other words, we want to encourage the recognition of sexual practices, and more specifically - healthy sexual practices, outside the realm of reproduction. 

 

Also important to recognise is the fact that under overpowering and often resistive cultural and social factors, it is hard to differentiate these terms successfully due to the fear that if we are talking about sex, then we must be promoting sex as well. 

Contrastingly, at Amirrah we believe, when we do not talk about these concepts, it fares even worse as we pave way not just for the type of premature decision-making that can take place but also the rooting of deeply grave misunderstandings about SRH in general. This further results in a lack of support for individuals who end up feeling not just alone but also embarassed in their experiences. 

So this begs for the question...

How do we actually talk about it? 

Before anything, it is important to realise that Sexual and Reproductive Health are both umbrella terms as they enfold within them a multitude of understandings and experiences, all of which are essential to look into in the overarching mission to advocate for their respective rights. However, the manner of our talking is strongly relied on the following processes: 

Un-learning 

We could start with something as basic as understanding your own body and needs. 

 

By this, we don't mean to just refer to the knowledge you were first introduced to in your biology books but the knowledge that has ultimately followed, both, outside of textbooks, through media and friends and family, as well as through culture at large. This includes practices that have impacted the way you look at yourself and your body and how your physical experiences coincide with your emotions and needs.

 

From the moment we enter into adolescence, we are compounded with a range of bodily changes. It is also at this crucial stage where most individuals often realise and form their notions on sexuality and sexual practices. This is why it remains important that we can learn to differentiate between substantiated truth and what may be misleading information and/or myths. 

Overtime, we will come back to this through our projects and our editorials to provide you with an in-depth take on the various aspects that tend to inform our learnings regarding SRH, especially in the contextual setting of India and Kenya. These will, of course, be built upon by the following and some basic questions to spark some initial insights: ​

  • Where does your knowledge about your body, your sexuality and sex come from? Is it textbooks, social media, or friends/family? 

  • How often do you challenged this knowledge by trying to look for pieces of information on your own? Would you know where to begin?

  • Do you feel a certain restriction thinking or talking about your sexuality or sexual practices? Why do you think that is? 

  • are you confident in your knowledge regarding sexual practices, including contraception? 

  • How often do you think about the kind of complications that can arise during such practices? Do you know where to look for help, if they do?

Budding Awareness

By challenging our existing knowledge and ensuring that our truth stands substantiated, we can rid ourselves of the many misconceptions that surround our understanding of SRH. The next step for us is to familiarise individuals with what is essential and what is healthy for us. 

While we seek to create awareness about the different aspects within this umbrella term, we also want to build access to any and all existing resources that people can reply on in their need for a practical helping hand. 

Take a look at the playlists gathered below to embark on your awareness building journeys:

Fertility Experts Debunk 19 Myths About Getting Pregnant | Debunked
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Fertility Experts Debunk 19 Myths About Getting Pregnant | Debunked

Fertility specialist Cindy Duke and reproductive urologist Sriram Eleswarapu join us to debunk 19 myths about getting pregnant. They talk about how IVF isn't guaranteed to work, how stress does not cause pregnancy loss, and best practices if you're experiencing erectile dysfunction. Did you know there are ways to improve your sperm quality? Duke and Eleswarapu dive deep into these myths and more on this episode of "Debunked." Duke is the founder, medical director, and lab director of the Nevada Fertility Institute in Las Vegas, as well as a clinical assistant professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, School of Medicine. Read more about her work here: https://drcindyduke.com/about/ Eleswarapu is a physician-scientist affiliated with the Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center and UCLA Santa Monica Medical Center. Read more about his work here: https://www.uclahealth.org/sriram-eleswarapu https://www.asrm.org/ https://resolve.org/ https://ssmr.org/ https://www.andrologysociety.org/ 00:00 Intro 00:49 Tight underwear is bad for sperm count. 1:34 Sex position matters. 1:53 Putting your legs up after sex can increase your chance of pregnancy. 2:16 IVF guarantees pregnancy. 3:12 Stress causes miscarriages. 5:24 Freezing your eggs guarantees you can have kids later. 6:27 Peeing or showering after sex will lower your chance of pregnancy. 7:04 Sperm quality doesn't decline with age. 7:58 It's impossible to get pregnant after 35. 9:14 The best way to get pregnant is to have sex every day. 11:09 You are most fertile 14 days after your period starts. 11:46 You can never have children after a vasectomy. 12:21 Eating pineapple increases fertility. 13:14 You can't have children if you are unable to ejaculate. 14:10 You can't get pregnant right after stopping birth control. 15:04 If you've already had children then you'll always be fertile. 15:50 Irregular period cycles are a sign of infertility. 16:29 Taking prenatal vitamins will increase fertility. 17:58 You should try for over a year before seeing a specialist. MORE DEBUNKED VIDEOS: Sexologists Debunk 17 Sex Myths | Debunked https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKC30lBYJ4U&t=9s Fitness Experts Debunk 17 Exercise Myths https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IW9hz1kZP2I Psychologists Debunk 25 Mental-Health Myths https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ii5m8Ta1iBY ------------------------------------------------------ #Fertility #Debunked #ScienceInsider Science Insider tells you all you need to know about science: space, medicine, biotech, physiology, and more. Visit us at: https://www.businessinsider.com Science Insider on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BusinessInsiderScience/ Science Insider on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/science_insider/ Business Insider on Twitter: https://twitter.com/businessinsider Tech Insider on Twitter: https://twitter.com/techinsider Business Insider/Tech Insider on Amazon Prime: http://read.bi/PrimeVideo Fertility Experts Debunk 19 Myths About Getting Pregnant | Debunked
Busting sexual health myths: What is a hymen?
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Busting sexual health myths: What is a hymen?

There are many misconceptions regarding the hymen. Learn more about this mysterious organ so you can make safe and educated decisions about your body. This video was made by McMaster University students Saima Ahmad, Atherai Maran, Candy Niu, and Joy Sumin Park in collaboration with the McMaster Demystifying Medicine Program. Subscribe to the McMaster Demystifying Medicine YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/DemystifyingMedicine This video is provided for general and educational information only. Please consult your health care provider for Information about your health. Copyright McMaster University 2017 References: Adams, J. A., Botash, A. S., & Kellogg, N. (2004). Differences in hymenal morphology between adolescent girls with and without a history of consensual sexual intercourse. Archives of pediatrics & adolescent medicine, 158(3), 280-285. American Academy of Pediatrics. (2004). Virginal Myths Regarding the Intact Hymen. AAP Grand Rounds, 11(6), 67-67. Castleman, M., M.A. (n.d.). The Hymen: A Membrane Widely Misunderstood. Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201103/the-hymen-membrane-widely-misunderstood Cinthio, H. (2015). “You go home and tell that to my dad!” Conflicting Claims and Understandings on Hymen and Virginity. Sexuality & Culture, 19(1), 172-189. Hegazy, ABDELMONEM AWAD, and M. O. Al-Rukban. "Hymen: facts and conceptions." The Health 3.4 (2012): 109-115. Hymen Greek Mythology. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.britannica.com/topic/Hymen-Greek-mythology Loeber, O. (2015). Wrestling with the hymen: Consultations and practical solutions. The European Journal of Contraception & Reproductive Health Care, 20(2), 128-135. O'connell, H. E., Eizenberg, N., Rahman, M., & Cleeve, J. (2008). The anatomy of the distal vagina: Towards unity. The journal of sexual medicine, 5(8), 1883-1891. Raveenthiran, V. (2009). Surgery of the hymen: from myth to modernisation. Indian Journal of Surgery, 71(4), 224-226. Van Moorst, B. R., van Lunsen, R. H., van Dijken, D. K., & Salvatore, C. M. (2012). Backgrounds of women applying for hymen reconstruction, the effects of counselling on myths and misunderstandings about virginity, and the results of hymen reconstruction. The European Journal of Contraception & Reproductive Health Care, 17(2), 93-105.

Instilling Safe Sex Practices

As a part of building awareness, it is also important for you to know what resources are available to you and what can ensure that you only indulge in sexual practices that can remain healthy and completely safe. 

In our journey to explore these more in-depth, we have prepared a set of check0lists that can guide us or anyone looking to inform themselves for the same: 

Contraception

Sex

(best in consultation with a doctor) 

  • You know why you need contraception

  • You know all your options 

  • You know the process/ usage 

  • You understand all the side-effects, especially in consideration of the timeframe of the usage 

  • You are prioritising your comfort, both, before and after usage

  • You know you are comfortable both mentally and physically 

  • You are aware of your partner's history especially any existence of infections or sexually transmitted infections (STIs) 

  • You are able to communicate to your partner about any boundaries/ discomforts 

  • You take care of your hygiene, both, before and after sex

  • You may have some anxieties - but no fear - about sex

  • You feel you could say no and that would be OK

  • Nobody is forcing or pressuring you for it

  • You have talked about it together, discussed using condoms, other contraception and agreed on what happens next 

  • You each want it for yourselves - not just because the other person does

Consent

More Resources

India

Kenya

Did you know that the most common type of contraception among Indian women is sterilisation? This is a result of the permanence of the procedure. The method is followed by the usage of condoms and birth control pills. Only a small percentage of males bear the burden of contraceptive usage. You can read more about this in our blog or this published article

The most common STIs and STDs observed in the country include: Human papillomavirus (HPV), Genital Herpes, Syphilis, Chancroid and Chlamydia

Did you know that the most common type of contraception among Kenyan women is implants? This is a result of the little pain and a relatively low intrusion of bodily space experienced, as opposed to the IUD's method of insertion. Implants are inserted in the upper arm. The use of injectables comes closely second only that it poses more health risks. More information on the same can be found here.

The most common STIs and STDs observed in the country include: ​HIV/AIDS, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis

At Amirrah, we encourage everyone to conduct their own research - including talking to specialist doctors - when taking any decisions regarding your sexual and reproductive health. Keeping that in mind:

  • Here is a helpful guide to help you start your journey with contraception and the best ones for you 

  • You can also refer to this guide for brief information on the most common types of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) 

For our detailed directory on surveys and related schemes carried out by the Indian and Kenyan governments, please contact us.

Un-Learning
Budding Awareness
Safe Sex Practices
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